My children were frustrating me the other day. No surprise, it must be one of their principle roles in life...
The boys were operating at speeds slower than a snail with a limp. Fighting with each other at every moment. And seemingly requiring detailed instructions on absolutely everything, from talking properly to walking.
I was relating these issues to my mother and her comment was most unexpected!
She referred me to a blog I had posted ages ago, where I had whined about the same issues. She then quoted my insight which had been to let them do things in their time, instead of controlling every moment.
I was gobsmacked! Firstly, that I ultimately had good advice for myself, and that my mother pays that much attention to my blog!
I am back to setting broad boundaries and letting the boys get things done in their own time. And so far, it has relieved a heap of tension.
Gotta love your mother!
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Mum's have memories like elephants!
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